The highlights and lowlights of 2016 (make yourself comfortable….I might go on a rant)
February…I was assigned three post-season basketball games, a personal high for me. It’ll be a tough number to beat but every night on the court I try not to suck. So far….so good. I used to get butterflies before each game, hours before tip. Nowadays I get a little nervous, but only to get the game started and start having fun.
April…I took a cruise in the Caribbean with my best buddy. It was a banner year of travel for yours truly. Haiti, Jamaica, Mexico and Japan. Some of my favorite photos of the year were taken during this cruise. Dave’s my wingman. Has been since August of 1984.
June….a family vacation to Colorado. All five of us. Again…lots of fun, great food and a few memorable photos.
August…the unexpected death of a young friend. I miss him. I was working yesterday when a young man wearing a hoodie turned towards me asked a question, he looked like my friend. It took me aback. His death has affected the way that I manage our young employees. I can’t say that its a better way of managing, but more aware of what’s at stake. Over the course of 27 years I’ve known five employees who’ve taken their own lives. I’ve never come to a reasonable answer for any one of them. As I said before…I miss him.
August…..they flew the coop!! Our two youngest daughters left…in a big way. One to Germany. The other to Japan. Our closest daughter is in Miami…1500 miles away. My wife and I are all alone.
September….we’ve lived in this neighborhood since 2002. We’ve been the “new” neighbors for almost 15 years to our next door neighbors. With Pat and Ed moving into an assisted living apartment and our other neighbor moving to a nearby town…Connie and I are now “old” neighbors. The young couple living next to us put up a privacy fence and don’t let me pet their dog (of all things…?) but at least Jerry and Claire seem more like our kind. Nice…wave if they see you…stop and talk.
October...at my workplace, I started posting videos on our stores Facebook page with the charge of “engage our customers”. Many of the videos that I see on Facebook for our company are…professional though fairly bland, in my opinion. What I did was become Rowdy Rich. I started putting stuff out there with the idea of trying to catch our customers attention with #1…a gimmick (me wearing a pig nose for National Pork Month or something else) and #2…a great price on something that our customers may want. Its resulted in folks enjoying our Facebook videos but as far as driving us towards a sizable sales increase, don’t hold your breath.
November….I traveled to Japan to visit our daughter Karalee. Its a long-ass flight…dead serious, but quite an adventure…and I totally enjoyed myself.
December…I read my Facebook “Year in Review”. Can’t say that I liked it, so I didn’t post it. What I did find interesting is that I “liked” 5300 times. REALLY?! Am I that promiscuous with the “like” button?! Broken down daily…that’s like 15 “likes” a day. I was wondering if I was being too liberal with it, then I realized that I was being totally stupid because I’m always going to “like” or react to dog and cat videos, beautiful sunrise/sunset photos, memes that are probably inappropriate and a friend of mine posted her Facebook in review and she had over 10,000 “likes” (BTW…she rarely posts, what she does post isn’t funny and she’s a fairly quiet person….so if anyone has a problem it’s her….not me, cause I’m normal).
Connie left me alone for the holidays. Dead serious. For the last week I’ve been totally alone. Christmas Eve…alone. Christmas morning…alone. Thank God my brother and his wife had me over for Christmas dinner (where I was fed like a King!!). Before you get the tar warmed up and feathers ready, she’s visiting our two daughters. One in Germany and one in Japan, with a quick visit to Sweden where she’s touring where her ancestors lived, not to mention the moose burgers she ate and wine she’s been drinking…all the while “missing you sweetheart!!” That old ruse!! Someone needs to start a business where you can rent a pet for the duration of your wife’s vacation. Her absence would be greatly eased with either a puppy or kitten greeting me every night. Dead serious.
My boss had a baby. So I’m trying to do my job and hers. I can’t really half-ass either and get away with it…so I’ve been going into work on my days off for a few hours and working. I’ve worked 25 hours in two days so far this week! Its okay…I’m just getting a little grumpy towards the end of my work day…especially with no puppy or kitten or wife to greet me at home. Also…since its Christmas break there’s no basketball games to officiate to work off my stress. Honestly…that brings me down as well.
I’m part of Big Brothers/Big Sisters, an organization that pairs at-risk kids with mentors. I’m a Big Brother to a 14 year-old young man. I try to be a good influence on him, take him to movies, dinner, games, try to teach him life-skills, etc. We’ve been together for 2+ years. Recently his mother (and him) won’t respond to me taking him out like we used to do. I’ve been trying for two months with nothing happening. If his mother does reply she says that “he’ll get back to you”. I understand that he’s 14, probably doesn’t think replying to my texts are a big deal…but I wonder if we’re “done”. It kind of made me mad, at first, but perhaps I was only to be a part of his life for these past two years and that’s his journey, not mine. Our case worker is reaching out to him…but I have a feeling that its “over”. If it is…I’d be sad. He doesn’t have a good male role model (not that I’m a Boy Scout by any measure….) in his life. His friends are shoplifting and such, I told his mother that. He might be done with me. I’ll just wait and see.
I hope that your year was a great one. Take care and thanks for coming along.